Child support is paid to Cleveland. We are located in another state. We have contacted csea and explained the situation and they say there is nothing they an do to change the cs and that he needs to keep paying it. So he has. We have looked at the legal forms ie: motion to terminate and the likes but we can not just drive to Cleveland for a court date. Right now the decree states they have joint parenting and his ex has primary custody. We would like this changed to my husband. The children are both teenagers and the ex agrees with all changes. Is there any other way to handle all this before we go broke? She keeps the child support money.