Husband agreed to online divorce service that allows parties to file themselves, however, in the state of SC it says he may have to be present to sign the Waiver of Citation, ad that all documents need to be notarized. Currently neither of us has a lawyer and I'd like to avoid that. How can we deal with the possibility of needing to be present to sign the Waiver? Also he would not be here to appear at a hearing. In addition, neither of us has a copy of the marriage certificate on hand - he has it at his home in Germany where he is currently stationed, but as stated above is deployed at this time. How can all of these issues be worked out?