Do not rely upon your husband that he "will take care of" the divorce! It is vitally important that you participate in the process to protect your rights. You should consult with an experienced Family Law attorney and an Immigration attorney. If you have limited finances, contact the Family Law Facilitator's Office at your local courthouse or contact one of the legal aid groups in Los Angeles, such as Harriet Buhai, Levitt & Quinn or Neighborhood Legal Services. Do not delay! Good luck.
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If you have a protective order, you shouldn't lift it just to get the dissolution to "go away", since he can re-file it the day after you lift the protective order. You should file a response in the dissolution (divorce), and speak to an attorney about how to best protect yourself and your child.
Your husband can not complete the divorce without having you involved. To complete the divorce he will have to serve you. You can search on the court system by name to find out if there is a pending action against you.
Now to get involved you can file your own petition for dissolution and serve him. The first one who serves put the other party as respondent and he will have to respond to you.
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