He was awarded the house in the divorce. It says in the divorce papers that he has all ownership to the house. The loan is in her name with the VA. She will not sign the papers to have her name taken off the deed. What happens if he dies? Does she have the right to take over the house and force me to leave? Do I have any rights to the house if he dies? If he states he wants me to have the house upon death in a will?
There are lots of issues here.
No one can force her to refinance unless the mortgage company agrees.
You probably have no right to the house except a possible reimbursement claim for community funds spent on it during your marriage.
She has no title to the house, just the duty to make sure payments are made.
He needs a will in any case, and may choose to leave you the house in his will. The mortgage might still be in Ex's name. You would probably have a homestead right too.
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You would be well advised to consult with a lawyer now to get this situation straightened out. Lots of issues here. Who is making the mortgage payments? Does the agreement or decree that gives him ownership require him to refinance?
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As already stated, there are a lot of issues here. You are in a very vulnerable position as to ownership and as to being dragged in to unwanted litigation in the future. These problems will probably not soften with age. Get an attorney and deal with it soon.