His addiction includes porn, cybersex, affairs, craigslist ads, stripclub, etc. and this is only the stuff I know about. He claims he never did any of this in front of the kids, but I know of at least one instance when he masturbated to porn with not only the kids and I in the other room, but my son's friends and their mother in the house as well. My concern is for my precious young daughter. I don't know the extent of his "addiction" and do not want my kids around him unsupervised. He has started counseling, but I know he is still cheating. He has never been honest during counseling even when we were trying to save our marriage. I didn't know then what I know now, and I'm certain I still don't know everything. I am a SAHM and volunteer at my kid's school and our church.
If you can establish that he provides an unsuitable environment for the child, then the judge may decide to give you sole custody. Him masturbating alone while you and your daughter are in another room is not grounds for losing custody (if it was, then 99% of fathers in this country would lose custody), but if you can establish other erratic behavior, then you have a shot. You should consult with a family law attorney about this.
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