My Mothers parents are buried there, Dad gave them each one for a gift. Our Father has passed away and out of the blue came relatives we haven't spoken to in 10-15 yrs. They are trying to claim our last 4 sites and saying that our grandparents gave them to them. My Mother is still alive but in a nursing home but she still has her mind. She was furious. Here's the problem; they took out a claim at Magistrate Court against us to try and get them even admitting they have no legal documetation. It's a he said she said. So I have searched the cemetery, courthouse,etc. and there is no record of my Dad purchasing them; BUT it was in 1955 and we have spoken to the owner of the cemetery and he's an old country boy and he said that back then it was just a hand shake / Thank you. What do we do?
Lawsuit / Dispute Attorney
Your relatives claims seems rather untimely. The time to dispute ownership was before your father begin interring family members there. The argument should be that they have no documentation and are estopped all these years later from making claim. It appears there is still room for your father, so you should not have to delay the burial. Worst case, your mom when the time comes can still be buried in the same plot (vertically). You should get a notarized statement from the old country boy recognizing your dad's ownership interest.
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You should consult an experienced litigator who has experience working with real estate disputes, as soon as possible. As the first answer points out, there may well be a defense to this claim, but this is not a do-it-yourself area. My condolences to your family on the loss of your father as well as having to deal with this issue.
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