The custody agreement specifies that travel be shared equally. She is claiming hardship, does not own a car does not work and has had 3 additional children (with others) post our divorce. She wants me to do all of the travel approx 250 miles round trip two time a month for her to see our son. I work 60 hrs a week and provide 100 % of my sons support. Given my past experience with the California family courts I would like to hire an attorney. Do I have any obligation to provide an attorney for my ex. The current agreement has been in place for approx 5 yrs and has only been broken by my ex ( she moved out of state without any notice or attempt to work something out with me for 2 of those 5 years). and had basically no contact with our son.for that time.
One attorney response to this was that I was not obligated to help my ex with an attorney but that she could always request attorney fees. Does that mean that even though she is initiating the court proceeding because she can not hold up her responsibilities that I might have to pay her attorney fee's in the event I decide to be represented?
Family Law Attorney
Any time that there is a disparity in the parties' earnings, the court can consider awarding attorney's fees to the lower earner.
As for the other questions, which you did not ask, the responsibility for travel related to visitation usually is shared, but sometimes falls completely on the shoulder of the parent who moved - especially if their move was done without discussion with the other parent or the court beforehand.
While is is possible that the court could order you to do all of the transportation, I do not see this as very likely.
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Family Law Attorney
No but she can always request attorneys fees. How old is your son and who does he want to live with?
You need to talk this over with an Attorney
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Criminal Defense Attorney
No, you do not have an obligation to provide your ex with an attorney.
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Divorce / Separation Lawyer
While I agree with the responses from the other attorneys, nevertheless your ability to take action is suspect. If your wife moved out of state for two years and you did nothing, and had no contact with your son, why are you now suddenly going to have the gumption to stand up at the plate and take action and pursue your legal rights? Hopefully retain legal counsel and do the same.
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