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My ex is appealing our divorce. Can I make him pay for my attorney fees in the appeal?

Bend, OR |
Filed under: Divorce Divorce appeals

My ex did not fare well in our divorce trial. He lost legal and physical custody and some financial assets. Our trial was 3.5 days long and our judge actually spent an extra 5 days to think about our case before making his judgement. My ex states in emails that his appeal is based on the fact that I moved 2 towns over (within 60 miles), but his appeal asks for financial assets as well as joint legal custody and 50-50 parenting time. I have already spent a lot of money on this court case and I do not want to spend anymore money. I won this case.

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  1. First, these are questions you should ask your divorce attorney. Secondly, IF you/your attorney files a Response to his Appeal, you should ask for attorney fees. Whether you get them, will depend upon the Court of Appeals' ruling. His chances of succeeding in the joint legal custudy & 50-50 parenting time issues are nil.

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  2. You can certainly ask that the Court order him to pay your attorney fees incurred in the appeal. You'll only be awarded attorney fees if you win.

    It seems quite likely, from your description here, that you'll win at least part of it. Under Oregon law, a court can only award joint custody of children if both parents agree to it. If you did not so agree, then there's no way he can win an appeal on the issue of joint custody.

    You should consider, though - any attorney licensed to practice in Oregon would know that. Certainly no one would go to the very considerable effort and cost of appealing a decision, knowing that they were going to lose. Which suggests that either this understanding isn't quite right, or your ex-husband is not being entirely honest with you. Has he actually filed an appeal - have you seen the notice of appeal or appellate brief - or has he just sent you an email stating that he'll do so?

    If he's actually filed, then you will need to file a response, and that will likely mean paying an attorney (either the one who represented you so well in the trial, or someone else) to reply to the appeal. You can lose automatically if you fail to reply. Any attorney fee award you might get would merely entitle you to a judgment against him for fees you had to pay.

    But if he's not yet actually appealed, then it's possible he's just blowing smoke. You don't need to spend any more money until and unless an appeal is actually filed.

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  3. You may have prevailed at the last hearing, but winning a court case is not official until the court enters a final order. By him appealing the decision, which is every person's right under our legal system, the case is not over.

    Apparently, your attorney did well by you in getting the court to rule in your favor. You should consult with your attorney regarding legal fees being paid by your husband on appeal.

    I am licensed to practice law in VA, not your state. As such, I may be unaware of certain state laws; therefore, my response may be wrong or irrelevant. Please use my response for informational purposes only and contact a local attorney for legal advice.

    Good luck.

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