Finding cash income is difficult. You need the assistance of a good lawyer and you are lucky that there are many good ones near you. Yes, the cousin can be brought to court and your lawyer will know how to do this. Do not attempt this by yourself. Until your ex files a motion to modify child support, he is required to continue paying at the rate ordered. However, you should have a lawyer ready in case your ex figures this out.
I agree with Judy's answer. There is hope that the motion to modify may be successfully defended and the court may be willing to keep support at its current level if the ex-husband is intentionally earning below his earning potential. This is called "imputing income", however, it is a somewhat technical aspect of child support disputes and you should look for a lawyer familiar with the concept. The court might also enter a "need based" support order--which is rarer but also may help keep support up to its current level.
Discuss these matters with a lawyer in your area experienced with child support matters.
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Yes, there is a way to bring in the cousin and peek into those records . . .but why focus on that? Why not focus on the firing and seek to preserve support where it is, right now?
First, shoot to preserve the existing support order.
Second, prove your husband's income -- it's not that hard to demonstrate cash income -- any experienced lawyer can usually do a pretty good job is they have the resources to work with.
Third, if you can't determine his income, because he hides it, that's fine -- leave the support order unaffected or seek to INCREASE support on a needs basis.
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