Payment was suppose to be made by March 2013, but I am unable to get a refi due to my credit score, I have tried twice.
Failure to make this payment could lead to your ex taking you into court on a motion for contempt of the prior court order. You could consult a domestic attorney to deal with the matter, if you don't already have one. You could also consult with a bankruptcy attorney, since it might be possible to deal with this debt in a bankruptcy as well.
I recommend you consult with a local bankruptcy attorney and a local divorce attorney to get the legal advice you need. And after speaking with them, perhaps they will have recommendations on how to approach this matter. If they have no solutions, then perhaps you could talk with your ex husband and see if you two can work out something that will satisfy what you owe him. Whatever you do, make sure that any agreement with your husband is put into writing (written by your attorney) and notarized by both of you. I am licensed in CA and MD, not SC, so this is general information, not legal advice.
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