File a motion to reinstate, serve your husband, get the hearing set, notify your husband, appear before the judge to ask the case be reinstated. Present an order reinstating the case and ask the judge to sign it. I think you'd be better served to get an attorney involved at this point.
I am not intending this to be legal advice, because I don't know the particulars of your situation. Call me if you would like to discuss this or other isues.