The debt to him is as he invoiced over many months. We had issues, but i was dependent on him. I complained but did not exit the relationship. After divorce I got far less than i expected and now cannot pay him what he wants. We are negotiating, and he is playing hardball, incouding filing a suit against me in superior court. he claims he can get most of the money plus expenses, and is bold with his emails to me offering settlement. what is a fair thing to do?