Her real estate mortgage & home equity loan of $170,000 exceed the value of her home (2010 tax assessment of 119,000). She had a 2000 Honda Civic -value $4000. Not much in the way of savings. Student loan debt of $21,500 & credit card debt of $16,500. Life insurance & 401(k) passed to me as beneficiary. Can I just walk away from her estate and do nothing? I live in NJ