I live in another state. My dad is currently in the hospital needing discharge plans, but is no longer mentally competent to live alone. He has a lady friend in Wi who has been helping care for him, but this may be getting too much for her. What can I do legally to obtain POA and/or guardianship for him. Without access to his finances, I cannot afford care for him. This has happened very quickly and I am really unprepared. Is it still possible to get POA? What about guardianship? Other options? Two or more doctors are available to declare him incompetent. Also, he has a condo in IL where he lived for years, but has been in WI for almost a year (with his lady friend), and spent a lot of time there even prior to that. Do we need WI law or IL? I'm assuming WI.