It is possible that his sisters (in a nursing home, no children) don't know he has passed away, they left home when he was a boy. He and I are the same age and we grew up as brothers when his parents died in an accident.
No one would be surprised if I inherited his estate. If i distribute his estate per his unwritten wishes and his sisters or my 27 cousins discover there was no will would I have to pay everyone a share?
Yes - and you would be in prison.
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If you apply to be the administrator of the estate, you would be required to notify everyone who would be intestate beneficiaries under the law. If your deceased cousin had no surviving spouse, parent, or child, then his siblings (being the next-closest relatives) would inherit his entire estate in equal shares.
You say you grew up "as brothers" -- did your parents adopt your cousin? If so you may have a claim to his estate. But unless there's a legal adoption making you his brother, you would otherwise get nothing, since he has surviving siblings, who are closer in the intestate distribution scheme under the law than you.
What you're contemplating (not telling any of your other relatives) would be criminal fraud, and yes, you would be subject to charges, fines, and possible jail time (as well as restitution of all of the estate property you would take).
If your cousin wanted a different estate distribution than the intestate distribution law provides, he should have made a will. So many people think wills are unnecessary -- until a relative dies without one, and the survivors discover that the law of estate distribution is very different from what they might have thought.
I agree with both of the other attorneys. There is no way for you to legally wind up with this estate absent a Will leaving you the assets or joint property or beneficiary designations in your name. Your cousin did you a disservice, if he truly intended you to have his estate.
If you attempted to do this, you would probably wind up in one of the nicer prisons. But it is still not worth it.
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