went to my MSC. Reviewed brief law firm prepared & filed that day. No settlement division discussions discussed with client on what to propose to opposition. Case was never heard after waiting several hrs. No follow up from firm to client on minutes & discussions. Told there's a hearing date (settlement or trial).
Divorce / Separation Lawyer
Lack of communication is one of the biggest complaints against family law attorneys. I don't really understand it. I know that there are times that a person going through a divorce does not "hear" what is being said (usually because of the heightened emotional state they are in). But that is no excuse. It is the attorney's job to make sure the client is informed and aware of what is going on in their case. If you have a communication problem with your attorney, it is up to you to let him/her know - and put it in writing. Attorneys can get very busy and may not realize that you are feeling neglected or confused.
If you are not comfortable with your attorney, for whatever reason, and are not able to resolve this problem with your attorney, I would suggest you look for someone else who may be a better match for you and your situation.
As for the settlement discussions, you do need to be aware of what the proposals are - whether your attorney recommends acceptance or not, it is his/her duty to inform you. Your attorney is also required to advise you on what s/he believes to be in your best interest. It is your job to follow your attorney's advice or not. You have to live with the consequences/benefits of your settlement; your attorney does not.
If an MSC does not result in an agreement, typically the case is set for either a trial setting conference or set for trial. With new regulations in place this year, there is a lot of confusion on scheduling and calendaring. In fact, some folks who had MSCs scheduled are just learning that those MSCs have been cancelled. The severe budget cuts have resulted in many court closures, which is adding to the chaos in the courts that remain open. So, there is good reason that you are confused and frustrated.
You do have other, out-of-court options, such as mediation and collaborative negotiations, that also result in binding, fully enforceable agreement. You may want to look into these as well. If you are feeling these frustrations, it is possible that your soon to be ex is as well.
Since the information provided in your question is very limited and I have not had an opportunity to review all relevant facts, information, and documents, you should not rely on any specific responses to your questions. The information offered here is general in nature given that the slightest bit of additional information could change a specific answer (i.e. we separated 1 year ago and he has been paying all my expenses. Q: Do I owe him that money back? A: Yes. But what if he used money from a community asset, like a retirement account, to pay it back. A: maybe some or maybe none). In short, consult an attorney to review all relevant information so s/he can properly and accurately advise you. This free service IS NOT a substitute for legal advice and should not be considered legal advice at all.
Divorce / Separation Lawyer
Please see prior answer.
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Child Custody Lawyer
If your attorney is too busy to communicate with you, perhaps you should find another attorney. Not all are like that. For further information, visit http://www.ellifritzlaw.com
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