I am a Pro Per Plaintiff in CA. I have complied with all discovery requests from OPP party, including traveling farther than 150 miles for depo, 78 interogatories & RFA's.... Attorney has refused to respond to my RFA's. She keeps delaying or avoiding any meet & confers. I will file motion to compel Monday. I can't ask for monetary sanctions in Pro Per, what is likelyhood of getting requests deemed admitted? They have no real evidence, only hearsay, so getting RFA's deemed admitted would be detrimental to them. Both parties have waived jurisdiction (after their motion to dismiss based on jurisdiction) and have agreed to follow court rules and discovery, but they have not complied in any of my discovery attempts. Judge stipulated to discovery, so she is in violation of court now.
The opposing lawyer's refusal to meet and confer with you should be a big point in your favor, as judges really hate that, but whether you're likely to get the RFAs deemed admittred depends on whether your RFAs are worded properly, or whether the defense's objections have merit because they aren't.
I'm not sure what you mean by the "judge stipulated to discovery," but if the opposing counsle or party violated a court order, you can ask for sanctions against them payable to the court under C.C.P. Section 177.5, which authorizes a judicial officer to impose reasonable monetary sanctions, not to exceed $1,500, payable to the court, “for any violation of a lawful court order by a person, done without good cause or substantial justification.”
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I concur with Ms. Koslyn. You have a good shot at getting the requests for admission deemed admitted if the attorney failed to serve objections stating the basis of the objection, etc. We don't know what he/she may claim at the hearing on your motion but keep in mind, any time prior to the motion the opposing party can serve you with a response with or without objections. If they do that, you'll have to take your motion off calendar unless the response is unmeritorious. The court may order them to respond in 20 days. You may want to contact legal aide or local bar association for pro bono assistance. Good luck.
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