my spouse wants to file for divorce based on irreconcilably differences. i don't want the divorce but she does. we have two pre-teen children. the house is titled in my name only (we were married when it was purchased). we have a tremendous debt load because of use of credit cards and a home equity line to purchase a business for her, but the business has not done as well as we thought after 3yrs. total equity in the house is roughly $200k, but our combined debt (including my student loans, our credit cards, my home equity line) is roughly $250k.
will the courts say she has rights to the house. i want to keep/stay in the house and we want joint custody of the children. how is the debt situation handled/divided and then applied to asset distributions, if any.