Teenager who caused minor damage to another vehicle, left and was pulled over by police and given criminal citation. Awaiting hearing date from court. Police say we shouldn't file accident report with police office. We have spoken with owner of the damaged vehicle. What is the line of defence here? Will filing reports with the police & insurance screw up defense at the hearing? We want to do the right thing. But police officer made it sound like we should "let sleeping dogs lie".