Hit and skip laws all over are being taken very seriously and that is rightfully so. While the rules in VA where this happened are likely very specific ( I do not practice in VA), as a general matter, leaving the scene after an accident is - at a minimum - frowned upon and is not a good practice. After the fact advise is like Monday morning quarterbacking, but I observe that in this instance your first phone call should have been to the police reporting the location, describing what happened and that to your knowledge there were no witnesses nor anyone hurt etc....
That said, you should not compound your mistakes by trying to fight this court situation without an attorney.
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You can miss defenses and say the wrong things if you are not represented by an advocate as your attorney.
Good luck to you.
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Get a lawyer! Call your insurance company! don't post anything else about this!
Make sure you get a lawyer who can handle the traffic law and DMV aspect of you problems. You may be able to get some of the penalty's and charges reduced with good negotiation.
You are not under any obligation to give the police any kind of a statement, so I suggest that you say nothing further. Who says you can be charged with reckless driving? Is there a witness to the way in which you were driving? Does anyone know how your car got in the position it ended up in? Is anyone a witness to you driving this vehicle? Can anyone, other than yourself, put you behind the wheel at the time of the incident? Do you see my point? You may be the only person who can sink your own ship, so keep a tight lip.
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