Mediated by the court's probation officer. Did not see a judge. Officer ushered me out of the room to talk to him (the ex) alone. Brought me back in & ask me to agree to $100 per week because he was claiming no income. I went back since to the officer to see if I can just get an imputed judgment. (He was making 6 figures) Not helpful and discouraging. I went home (shame on me). Left it alone, but concern I was robbing my kids. 1 month ago, he tells me he found a job and would catch up on payments. He also showed up in a convertible Mercedes Benz. What should be my 1st step? Would love to have an attorney, but cannot see how I can afford it...so here I am..any advice would help. Single mom of 2, with a mortgage and one income - under 6 figures - caught in the financial middle.
To secure a modification of a previously set child support obligation you must establish that there has been a significant, permanent change of circumstance since the child support issue was lasted reviewed (his support was last set). If at the time his child support was last set he was unemployed and little to no income was imputed to him, the fact that he has secured a new job and is therefore earning more should serve as the "change of circumstance" you need in order to justify a review and likely modification of his support obligation. To get the ball rolling you need to file a Motion with the court. Within that Motion you should account for any and all relief you are seeking, i.e. if he has amassed child support arrears you want to address that in addition to resetting his current child support obligation. Forms for such a Motion are available online at the New Jersey Court's Website.
If you can find the means, you may be best served by retaining an attorney who will know how to dot all the "i" and cross all the "t" as you not get multiple chances to do this right, i.e. if the support is not properly set now you may be hurting your chances of securing the proper support award in the future.
Kenneth A. White, Esq.
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