It's time for a divorce! My wife has spied on me using electronic hardware.

Asked over 1 year ago - Denver, CO

A divorce has been fairly eminent for some time. My wife and I are incompatible in almost every conceiveable way. We don't have any children together, almost no property acquired together, and a little bit of debt. Pretty straight forward. However, I have recently found out, becuase she got caught in her own lies and admitted it, that my wife planted some kind of electronic bug on me multiple times so she could eavesdrop on my conversations. I never did anything wrong or dishonest, but I can't get over the fact that she did that. This is after I have caught her multiple times getting into my email accounts by using my personal cell phone and computer. I know there are laws in Colorado that should prevent this sort of thing. I feel like she is stalking me. What can I do about this?!

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  1. Howard M Lewis

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    Answered . I am sorry that you are going through this. That question should be answered by your family, friends, pastor and or marriage counselor, try counseling and I wish you all the best.

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  2. Stephen Clark Harkess

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    Answered . The primary thing you can do is to file for divorce and end the marriage. However, you need to understand that Colorado is a no fault state so you don't need grounds for divorce. The judge will not care to hear about the easedropping and it will have absolutely no impact on the division of marital debts or assets.

    Easedropping and wiretapping are illegal and you can report the crime to the police in the jurisdiction where the easedropping took place. There also may be grounds for a wiretapping complaint and, if you believe that she will still be coming around you after you move away from her, you can file for a restraining order.

    You can reach Harkess & Salter LLC at (303) 531-5380 or info@Harkess-Salter.com. Stephen Harkess is an attorney... more
  3. Rosalia Ann Fazzone

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    Answered . While it certainly signals a failure to respect your privacy, I doubt you would ever find a DA willing to file criminal charges. I say this not because it's not morally wrong or disrespectful, but because snooping is pretty common and they'd have to prosecute a large number of people. Put a password on your phone and computer that is activated when you log in. If you are unhappy, there are good divorce attorneys out there to help you. If you really feel there's no hope for your marriage and have tried marriage counseling, maybe it's time to visit an attorney. Better to do so now than when you have children and have amassed a lifetime of shared property and debt. I hope this goes well for you. If you have further questions, please call me. 303-780-7333.

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