I am sorry to hear about your problems. You need to hire a local experienced divorce attorney to represent you. Talk with an attorney about legal steps you could take to have the court order your husband out of the house. An attorney will advise you about whether or not that is possible in your county while the divorce is pending.
disclaimer: Answering this question does not create an attorney client relationship. It is not legal advice.
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