I am with someone who has been seperated from their marriage for about 10 years. He believes that it is considered a type of divorce since it has been so long, but I don't. He does not know the where abouts of his wife, he just has her name. Is he right or do you have to have legal papers and go through the courts for it to be considered a divorce? Is there a way we can track her down to serve the papers if necessary? Please help so my partner and I can move forward with our future together.