I have a 3 yr old, and 4 yr old by the same man that I left in 2010, a few months before the youngest's birth. His name is not listed on the birth certificate of my 3 year old, who does have my last name. At the time of our unwed separation, it was necessary for me to file a restraining order as I feared for our safety. He is a dangerous, schizophrenic sociopath. He has not made any attempt to contact us since our separation. The court ordered that he pay 117 a month in child support, and we see about $45 a month. I do not want his money, nor do I want a paper trail leading him to us. I live in fear that he may travel back down to west virginia and hurt my children or me. Can termination take place without notification if we are in danger?