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Is it against the law to shove a child against the wall?

Reading, PA |

My niece 'Suzy' was baby-sitting for the 10 year old daughter, 'Heather' of my other niece. Heather recently told me (her great-aunt) that Aunt Suzy was mad at her and shoved her against the wall. Heather didn't seem to be very upset about it saying, well, I wasn't really hurt or anything.
Suzy is known for her explosive temper. Heather is very sweet and does not make things up! My question is, could charges be filed against Suzy for assaulting a minor child?
Thank you for your time.

Attorney Answers 1


Child abuse is no small matter, and yes, shoving a child against a wall could be considered abusive under some circumstances, and charges might be filed if warranted. However, you need to understand that reporting a family member for child abuse without substantiated proof and a true need to protect the child could destroy their family. Child protective services is indiscriminate and heavy handed, and the result could be unexpected, e.g. the children could be taken away entirely, from all of your family members.

If it is a growing concern for your family, I would suggest that you speak with Suzy about her temper and see if she will get counseling for her temper. Additionally, your family should consider not having Suzy babysit anymore. Have you spoken with Heather's parents about any of this? What is their opinion? I would respect their wishes if they are dealing with the situation themselves.

There are better ways of approaching this problem than endangering your family by involving the state. Work with your family and solve your issues together.

Good luck!

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