APS has taken over my grandmothers bills. They have been getting her social security income and her veterans income checks. They refuse to give her any of her money for her personal needs. She doesnt have a washer or dryer in her home and needs to do laundry at the local laundromat but they will not give her any money to do so nor will they do anything at all to get her laundry washed. She also needs new shoes and underwear but they refuse to give her any of her money for that either. She is not in a nursing home. My husband and i take care of her the best we can. We do not make much money and we have 3 kids to take care of as well so having to buy her things with out low income is very hard to do. Is APS allowed to do this to her?
Family Law Attorney
Unfortunately, it is difficult to know from your brief narrative whether it is reasonable under the circumstances to expect or demand improvement in your mother's situation. It doesn't sound very nice, but it isn't clear whether it rises to the level of abuse. There are procedures by which you can be appointed guardian of your mother but it sounds like you may be too overwhelmed to accept this responsibility. I recommend you have a brief consultation with an attorney who is familiar with APS, Medicaid and guardianship matters so you can get a good understanding of all the options. Good luck!
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