I am a homemaker and can not afford an attorney and am unable to get a pro bono and am facing court with an attorney representing the other party.
Family Law Attorney
Are they an attorney? Otherwise, a layperson, other than yourself, cannot represent you. Sorry and best of luck to you.
Divorce / Separation Lawyer
You can represent yourself or you can be represented by an attorney licensed in the jurisdiction where the divorce is filed. Good luck.