You need to file a Motion to Extend the Compliance deadline and present the facts to the Court. Have you attended the Family Violence Impact Panel yet? Have you been able to get a date to attend set? As I am often in Court call my assistant Dan London at 312-807-3990 to set up a private telephone consultation. At the consultation we can discuss the confidential details we need to craft a strategic plan. These details should not be broadcast over the Internet.
This is a general answer and does not address the specifics of your individual case. To give the specific answer you need our firm needs you to come in for a consultation.
You need to retain an attorney immediately. If you can't afford it, you need to petition the court for an extension of time.
Nothing in this post creates an attorney-client relationship. This post is not meant to serve as legal advice.