I divorced my husband after less than two years of marriage (14 months). I have a green card with conditional residency (the I-751 90 day 'window' to remove conditions starts Sept 2010). My husband was abusive mentally and physically, I have no contact with him. I cannot prove the abuse definitively (no photos or police reports) as I covered it up at the time. The advice I have received on how to proceed has been conflicting; some say wait and apply during the 90 day window and it MIGHT be ok; some say I need to file now and prove the abuse. I have no money for a lawyer as my husband also stole most of my money. Any ideas?!? Does anyone know if it is riskier to try and prove the abuse or how hard that is?
Heartfelt thanks for all advice.