I am currently pregnant and would like the know if I have to give the father overnight visits once the baby is born or if we can wait at least 4 mo. He and I briefly dated and he hasn't contacted me at all regarding the baby. I will let him know when she's born and will encourage a relationship. I am just uncomfortable letting my new born stay all night when he has zero experience with children of any age.
Family Law Attorney
Hello. Your concerns are appropriate. No, you do not have to immediately allow dad overnight visits with your newborn. First of all you should file a complaint to establish a father and child
relationship. Even if dad signed a voluntary acknowledgement at the hospital, I still suggests filing such a case. This will get the court involved so that you can begin receiving child support as well as any medical benefits that dad may have through his employer. If dad persists in requesting overnight time with your newborn, this issue should be brought to the attention of the court, and can then be ruled on by a judge.
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Whether or not the court may order overnight visitation with a newborn varies greatly, depending on the judge. Some judges believe that, especially with a nursing newborn, overnight visitation is inappropriate. Other judges are of the opinion that it is best that a newborn be with the other parent as frequently as possible in order to establish a parent/child bond. However, the child's age is just one factor a judge may look at in determining the best interest of the child.