I was married sometime between 94-98. I do not remember the date. the county records cannot find a record of the marriage. I remember the minister saying he was going to file the record. If he did not does that mean I am not married? I need to know because he beat me and forced sex and I left before 6 months. I have been with someone else since 2000 and want to get a domestic partnership with her. if I am married I need to get a divorce before I can do that.