I have been seperated for going on seven years have attempted to serve with papers and he refuses to sign saying we will always be together. He now is living with another woman and has been for two years. He still refuses to go for divorce even though it bothers the girlfriend and i desperately want the divorce. I refuse to put anymore money into this process considering i have put over a thousand dollars into it already and have gotten no where. What are my options. Why if i can legally be married to someone if i live with them for seven years cant i just be legally divorced after being seperated after seven years.