She wants to because I make about 3 times what she makes. Plus, I still had 1 child living at home with me.
Social Security Lawyers
The certain answer to your question can easily be found at www.irs.gov. Within less than a minute I found in Pub. 17 this rule: "Divorced persons. If you are divorced under a final decree by the last day of the year, you are considered unmarried for the whole year." Filing status is determined as of the last day of the year so, no, you can't file your 2012 tax return jointly.
For the tax year in which the divorce became final, it is wise to use a tax professional even if you haven't needed that help in the past.
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No. Your marital status on December 31st dictates how you file. Since you were divorced on that date, you cannot file married jointly.
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Divorce / Separation Lawyer
No. Parties can only file jointly if they were married on December 31 of the tax year.
Family Law Attorney
No, your status filing status is determined based on what your status is on December 31, 2012. If you were divorced in September 2012, then you cannot filed jointly. You can either file head of household (depending on who resides with you) or single.