If my ex contacted me while a temporary restraining order was in place does it make the order null and void?

Asked over 2 years ago - Oakland, CA

Judge said I shall have no visitation untill court. I was contacted 2 days in a row under the excuse of letting me talk to my child. If I bring this up at court will the restraining order become void?

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  1. Trisha Ellen Newman

    Contributor Level 11


    Lawyer agrees

    Answered . No. And you are technically violating the order by having contact.

    I am licensed to practice only in California and the 9th Circuit. This response is informational only and is... more
  2. Edwin J Castellanos


    Contributor Level 5


    Lawyer agrees

    Answered . The restraining order does not become void. Contact by the other parent is not prohibited. Based on the facts given in your question, I do not believe that you are in violation of the no contact order with the other parent, since you did not initiate the call. Same would apply if the other parent came to your home with the child. You are not obligated to immediately leave your home in fear of violating the stay-away order.

    Depending on what custody orders are being sought, I do believe that you should tell the court about the phone calls, since that may alert the Court to the other parent’s willingness to allow phone contact with your child. However, you should not talk with your child until the Court specifically allows such contact.

  3. Benjamin J Lieberman

    Contributor Level 20

    Answered . Absolutely not and you can be charged with violating the order. I wouldn't suggest you mention it at all and I would suggest you stop taking those calls. Discuss this with your attorney.

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