we met when she was five months pergent. but to make a long story short. she told how it happen and how the father raped her and left, me filling sorry and me and her dating i let the love of the little boy get the best of me and fell in love with the young man. when it came to signing his birth certifacate i was never inform that i would have to pay child support or any of these things she trying to get help with. we have been split up for a year in a half almost but i still a part of the boys life. so how do i not have pay the child support they are telling me to pay.