planning to marry. we are 50 +. he does not have medical coverage and i do. I am buying my own home and only make around 30,000 yr. I am concerned about his medical. we live in different states, he gets medical care for heart condition at a discounted rate based on his income. He lives in TN. We have had a relationship for 8 yrs and want to get married and live together but we are concerned about health coverage and past bills or future bills. He works for himself, but makes less than i do. It is hard to pay for my own medical when needed. How best to handle this delima? Should we always file income seperately, and not have my house in his name? He does not want to harm my finances in any way and we have postponed getting married but we do not fill right spending only weekend nights together. we want to be a family.
