My husband and I recently got into an argument because he was drunk and wouldn't let things drop about how I talked to my family about him going outside our marriage. The cops had brought him home after i dropped him off on the side of the road, they asked if it was OK if he was here. I told them yes as long as he comes in and sleeps it off on the couch. He had agreed to to the cop but as soon as they left he came upstairs and started in again. I asked him several times to get out of the bedroom and to go sleep it off. He would not. After 15 minutes of him being in my face and repeatedly asking him to go i grabbed him by the throat to get him to shut up. Not hard just enough to get his attention and to shut up. no bruising was left and he was fine, fine enough that after I called the cops to have him removed and we were both arrested him on public intoxication and me on assault charges that he was telling the cops jokes and laughing. What is my possible punishment because I've never been in any trouble before and my husband and I are trying to work past this? Should I go to court in my first hearing with a lawyer or wait to see if the judge dismisses the charges or what?
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