I am curious about this issue. Right now, my wife any i need counseling, but she is pushing for a house b/c of the market/etc. We have been married a year an i feel that after graduating and working for a year, i am not comfortable with taking that step b/c of job security and the fact that we have had no counselling and our marriage lacks the gel that all marriages need. Quite frankly, i am tired of getting counseling LATE IN THE GAME. My question is that if we separate and get a divorce, will she be entitled to alimony if she makes $5-6k more than me and we have no children, or significant assets. As far as our lifestyle, we only share the rent/bills... i am considering taking a bigger role and paying all of the rent, and majority of the bills if we postpone getting the house.