I had a baby with a man that no longer wishes to be involved in her life. He avoids talking to me. He is trying to change his name and get a job in another state. I have an attorney, but my child's father has avoided 4 court dates, a deposition, and has not produced any documents order by the court. My attorney just keeps writing letters to his attorney, with no response, yet won't do anything to help me. I have full support of his family, but it is hard raising a baby on my income alone, especially after day care expenses. Can this man, actually change his name, move out of state or the country, and get away with avoiding taking care of his responsibilities? Can he run and hide from the courts? (DNA tests were done, and papers were filed while I was pregnant.)