The executor has control of the proerty in the estate but the beneficiary has the right to be treated fairly.
I would hire an attorney to represent your interest-maybe the two of you could buy her interest of the home and live their as owners.
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If talking with your sister is not working, hire a probate attorney to review your situation and advise you regarding your next step.
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At this point, it seems that involving a probate attorney is the right thing to do.
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You definitely need a probate attorney. I handle such matters and offer free consultations. My web site is listed below.
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I agree with my fellow attorneys. If the house was not "given" to your sister as an inheritance, than she likely does not have the right to live their and exclude you. You probably will need a attorney to get her to sell the house or otherwise let you into the house. Hope this helps.
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Your sister, as the Personal Representative of your mother's estate, has a fiduciary duty to the beneficiaries of the estate, and that would appear to be you and your siblings. She does, as PR, have the authority to make decisions regarding the property, and much is left to her discretion. So, it all depends...which is a lawyer's favorite answer to any question. Is she using the house? Is the house being maintained and on the market? Are reasonable efforts being made to sell the house? Is she reporting to you about the handling of the estate? An estate that has been opeon for 3 years is unusual, unless there are very difficult matters involved. I recommend you seek counsel if you can't have a reasonable discussion with your sister. Good luck!
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