order in the state that the child support case was orginally established can the custodial parent be granted to have the motion dismissed and moved to the new state they currently live in? Can the custodial parent request that the noncustodial parent not have any access to the child's teacher etc... just because they dont want the noncustodial parent to talk to the school team
Child Custody Lawyer
Most courts prefer to keep continuing jurisdiction when either the child or one the parents still reside in that state. If your divorce decree states you must notify the other party if you move (I’m almost sure it did), then you are in contempt. Also, your request about the school access does not sound reasonable. A parent, regardless of which party has custody, has a right to certain records and basic information about their child.
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Criminal Defense Attorney
The state that has jurisdiction, where the contempt motion has been filed is very unlikely to relinquish the case to the other state. If you have joint legal custody the mother cannot keep you from speaking to a teacher. You should share her actions, and attempted actions with your attorney so he or she can advise your judge, and try to move for for a change in custody.