I would like to sue my wife's ex husband for financially taking care of his kids for the past 15 years.

Asked about 2 years ago - Renton, WA

my wife gained custody of her 2 kids in early 2001. Their father essentially left the state and subsequently the country.

I have supported these kids financially ever since.
I would like to sue their father for all the monies I have spent over the years for clothing, food, education, school supplies, extra curricular activities, including health insurance to the tune of over $1000 per month for the past 15 years.

I can be reached at 425 235 6648.
or 206 412 9730(cell)

Monty Singh

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  1. Mark L. Alexander

    Contributor Level 14


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    Answered . I know of no cause of action which would have a reasonable possibility of success.

    Your wife has a cause of action against him for nonsupport, and if her dissolution decree and support order were prepared adequately, she should have a large judgment against him right now (or she could go to court to establish the amount of that judgment for back support, plus interest at 12%.) A judgment is all that you would be able to obtain. If you know how to collect a judgment, help your wife collect on hers, rather than pursuing fruitless litigation on your own.

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  2. Thuong-Tri Nguyen

    Contributor Level 20


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    Answered . RCW 26.16.205 (Liability for family support — Support obligation of stepparent) provides: "The expenses of the family and the education of the children, including stepchildren, are chargeable upon the property of both spouses or both domestic partners, or either of them, and they may be sued jointly or separately. When a petition for dissolution of marriage or state registered domestic partnership or a petition for legal separation is filed, the court may, upon motion of the stepparent, terminate the obligation to support the stepchildren. The obligation to support stepchildren shall cease upon the entry of a decree of dissolution, decree of legal separation, or death."

    So, WA laws require you to support stepchildren who are living with you.

    You must have known your future wife has minor children when you married her. If you did not want to support the stepchildren, you should not have married her. If you do not want to support the stepchildren now, you need to dissolve your marriage with their mother.

    Your wife likely has an order of child support that requires the children's father to pay her child support. She can use that order of child support to collect from the father.

    Given that the father is out of the country, there may be no practical way to collect.

    You and your wife should review the specific facts with your respective attorney to find out the legal options.

  3. Dave Hawkins


    Contributor Level 20

    Answered . There is no basis in the law for such a suit -- you have no standing. for any kind of action to progress through the court, your wife would be the party of interest. You are not the children's parent and as such had no financial responsibility for them.

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