Report his activity to the police - try to obtain a restraining order. If need, consult a local attorney for assistance, it will be worth the fee. Best wishes
This is not intended to be legal advise or as legal representation. I am a California personal injury attorney . Be aware that every state has its own statute of limitations; and statutes & case laws that govern the handling of these matters.
Better yet go to the police and file a rape charge. The nurse had no way of knowing whether your experience with this man was rape or not. All she can do is look at your physical condition and opine that it is or is not consistent with rape. This should not have prevented you from filing charges. The nurse should be in another profession.
I agree with Mr. Kaman. This nurse had a lot of nerve to give her opinion on something that was beyond the realm of her expertise. Nevertheless go to the police and report everything. You should get a temporary restraining order immediately to start.
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