My children are 13, 15, and 17. We had a court order for Christmas visitation. I went to pick up the children on Christmas Day. My wife said no. With out getting in to a fight, I left. I went to the police station and filled out a report. This is the fourth time, I had to fill out a report. I want to know, the next time I go to court what should I say or ask the judge. Is there anything I can do to prevent this from happening again. Or is there anything the judge can do. Do I have any rights, or is this what I have to live with.