employer will hire me i have 5 kids that i need to take care of an i can not do that with no job all of this happen in 2004 it is now 2012 what can i do to get that of my record?
I'm very surprised you were unaware, and that no attorney has answered yet, that you can have your record as a minor expunged, meaning sealed. Nobody will see it with routine checks, and by that i mean 99% of the background cheks all potential employers will run. But you should probably have an attorney help you with it. It's not overly complicated but it's also not very simple.
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