Per our Parenting Plan I am to get my kids for a week during xmas holiday break, I kept my son past 630pm that Sunday night of xmas weekend, my ex called the police and I was arrested at 715pm while my son was opening presents, my ex came w police and I had to return my son; he also did not send my daughter that weekend claiming she wasnt home when i arrived to pick the kids up the Friday night before but when I mentioned that to police nothings don. We had switched our custody arrangement, I get the kids every other weekend but in this order 2 yrs after the original plan it says nothing about holidays or that the parenting holidy schedule is no longer valid. So I want to know why he denied me my holiday time and if I bring this original plan to court will the custodial charge be dismissed
Family Law Attorney
You need to hire an attorney to explain all of this. If there has been no change to the original custody order, then everyone has to follow the terms of the Order regardless of what you both have been doing since then. You should bring the original custody order to court and if it hasn't been changed by another court order, then the original order controls the situation.
I am not sure why the police would be involved in a situation where a parent has the children only 45 minutes beyond what the Order says but the police only know what the complaining person says so he could have told the police anything. A lawyer can find out what is really going on.
For the same reason you can't keep the kids beyond 6:30, your ex has to follow the Order also. If he withheld your daughter, then he is interfering with your custody/access time.
A lawyer can explain the best way to handle this. You may need another custody order to clarify the holiday visitation and new weekend schedule.
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