First of all, STOP discussing your conduct online. You could do yourself a great deal of harm. Hire a criminal defense attorney immediately. Speak only to him or her because that relationship is your only confidential relationship. As for your wife and her property, she is or will soon be involved. Proof of what has been legally purchased may be necessary. Discuss all this with your lawyer. Go into rehab. You already know you need help.
Stop posting admissions online. Stop talking to the police and/or your employer without an attorney. Hire a criminal defense attorney ASAP to represent you. www.kacdl.net
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