Got married 4/21/2008 in Florida and by 7/4/2008 he abandoned me and I never saw him again. From what I was told, he remarried (which it's hard to believe since me and him are still married) and he got arrested for Domestic Violence (he was also arrested when we were together for beating me as well) and he got deported back to Honduras. I have no contact with him whatsoever and wouldn't even know where to find him. I moved to NY back in 2011 and still currently here and I need to finalize this divorce..
Under those circumstances you need a divorce rather than annulment - annulment requires fraud in the inducement to marry.
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To get divorced you will need to serve him through publication in a newspapers. This is not a simple proceedure. I've attached a link to our website to provide you more information on this.
Annulment has a different set of grounds then divorce, usually involving fraud. You can get a divorce but if you do not know where he is you need to make a diligent effort to locate him and if you can't then apply to the court for permission to serve by alternate means (publication). Then, if he doesn't respond you can file for a default. It is complicated and you should retain counsel.
The above is a general answer and is not considered legal advice. You should contact an attorney before proceeding to take any legal action, signing any papers or upon service of a summons. Howard E. Knispel 631-864-7589
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As my colleagues mentioned, you can finalize your divorce in New York, but the process is a not trickier if you cannot find him.
You would be well-served to discuss your dilemma with a New York domestic relations attorney in a confidential forum as soon as possible.