I want to know about my house property in a divorce.

Asked over 2 years ago - Northport, NY

My husband and I are in the process of a divorce and I want to know if there is a law that states that the mother can keep the house. I am currently unemployed while my husband is employed. Do I keep the house until my youngest child turns 18?

Attorney answers (5)

  1. Howard E. Knispel


    Contributor Level 15

    Answered . I agree there is no specific law regarding this issue, but there are two competing legal issues. First you and your husband are each entitled to the equity in the property. Also the person who is not keeping the home has a right to be relieved of it's debt. This contrasts with the best interest of the children doctrine. The judge will use his/her discretion as to the settling of these issues. You really need to discus this complicated matter with a local attorney.

  2. David Alexander Browde


    Contributor Level 20

    Answered . No, there is no such law. However, it often works out that way. You should discuss your situation in detail with a local attorney.

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  3. Paul Karl Siepmann


    Contributor Level 18

    Answered . There is no law that directs the mother shall have possession of the house until the youngest child is 18. However, depending upon many other factors, some cases arrive at such a conclusion.
    Much will depend upon the total financial circumstances of the parties.

    I am not your attorney and any posts/messages or responses to posts/messages can not establish an attorney-client... more
  4. Eric Edward Rothstein

    Contributor Level 20

    Answered . There is no law saying that. It is fact dependent. If the parties can't reach an agreement, the Judge will decide.

    I am a former federal and State prosecutor and now handle criminal defense and personal injury/civil rights cases.... more
  5. Kenneth M Keith


    Contributor Level 7

    Answered . The answer is not as simple as you might wish it to be. Many factors impact on the award of exclusive use and occupancy of the marita home to a custodial parent. The age of the children now, the amount of equity in the house, your ability to carry the house with the support package ultimately awarded all are factors which must be considered. New York law does not mandate that you keep the house but the court will allow you do do so under appropriate circumstances. The issues are sufficiently complex that you should consult with counsel for the answer you require.

    These materials have been prepared by Keith, Shapiro & Ford, for general informational purposes only and are not... more

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Divorce is the process of formally ending a marriage. Divorces may be jointly agreed upon, resolved by negotiation, or decided in court.

Separate property in a divorce

Separate property generally refers to property that is acquired before marriage. However, gifts and inheritances are also separate property.

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